Day Two: Today was not the best day I've ever had. Things didn't go smoothly. I didn't get the things done that I hoped to. I wasn't feeling all that positive or content. Ariel was clinging and fussy, but wouldn't nap. I wanted to nap (and I wanted her to nap). However, I do have much to be thankful for. I am most thankful today that Ariel is such an affectionate little girl. I have never been all that affectionate. I didn't really grow up in a hugging (or touching) family. I was loved, but not through physical affection, you know? Ariel is such a sweet, affectionate little girl. She seems to get it so naturally - maybe we are all affectionate at this age?
Today, even in her fussiness, she gave me countless hugs, kisses, pats, and snuggles. Tonight, she walked back and forth between Jason and I for about 15 minutes just giving us kisses. This afternoon, I was working on the computer and Remy, the pug I sit, was sitting beside me with her head off the edge of the couch, Ariel came over and patted Remy's head, gently held her head on either side, and gave her a kiss on the top of her head...then walked off. She came back later and did it again. Just cause. Yesterday, at our friends' house, without any provocation she climbed out of my lap, crawled over to my friend Beth's lap, and gave her a hug. Such a sweet moment. She is such a sweet little girl. I cannot begin to express how good it feels to receive her unconditional hugs and kisses. She makes everything better in that moment.
Thank you God for giving me this gift of affection in my little girl.
Passing The Baton
2 years ago
I've enjoyed reading your blog!! I don't usually post a comment because I usually read it on a real quick break at work, and don't have much time....but I am always inspired by your writings and I love you more everytime I see another piece of your heart.
ReplyDeleteSecondly I must say that I don't think all children are equally affectionate at Ariel's age. I have always favored young children and I must say that Ariel has a gift in this area. But her dad was especially affectionate too for most of his younger years. She is a very very special young lady. I'm so glad that you recognize and cherish her special gift to you and to others!!
Thirdly, HAPPY BIRTHDAY (again)....I am sure this "insignificant year" has very special blessings in store for you and I look forward to sharing them with you. I am so proud of you (and Jason). I look forward to (hopefully) seeing you soon! :) HUGS!!
Thanks, Jackie. I think you are right about Ariel, but since she is my only kid I didn't have as much to compare too. She's a special little girl, no doubt. Thanks for the birthday wishes.
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